If you dont know how someone turns his life then you not suppose judge anything in it. Word dont have meaning when it stands alone, but when it build a perception then becareful with each you pick. Perception comes along with knowledge and also with emotion around.
I'm getting old, still trying to have wise thinking in every decision i've made.
Its hurt when people just judge in fact they never know you, but feel more hurt if whom did it is people close with you.
Please stop judging without asking, and do it with good way, pick right words to describe your curiosity, believe me no one, even your self, like to be judge and confront with harsh words.
...when silent become better choice